Colombian Dating Culture


Today I wanna talk about Colombian dating culture. In other words, what should you expect when you are meeting in seducing Colombian women.

The first thing about Colombian women is that they’re very pretty and of course this very city to city I would say that you know if your type is more kind of cosmopolitan women then but what is your choice otherwise maybe Medellin Carly depending on your preference.

Colombian women aren’t as pretty but they’re very traditional I would say like Colombians are in my opinion some of the most traditional people in Latin America along with maybe Venezuelans Mexicans stuff like that family is very important they are big believers in the Catholic Church and the traditions and all of that.

So when you’re dating a woman it’s very common that you would go on a couple of dates.

And then she’s from a good family and she’s very close to her parents she would like you home for maybe dinner and a meal and that kind of thing.

Obviously this is something that’s almost not never the case in America and the UK Australia and then all of these western countries but in Columbia things are still very traditional.

Of course it really depends where the woman is from because if she’s from a big city like Bogotá the capital then she’s probably more cosmopolitan issues from a smaller city then she has more family-oriented if she is from a kind of maybe a very you know closed-off city like Medellin she’s probably also very traditional next paragraph.

But overall I would read Colombian women and date as much more conservative than Brazilian counterparts.

No I’m not telling you that every Colombian woman is an angel when I was there I definitely had my phone with women from all kinds of cities and so you know exceptions do occur every now and then but my point is that most of these are exceptions more than the rule so in America you are pretty much at pays for sleeping on the first date maybe the second date at the Max and pathetic with the first date.

But in Columbia that is usually not the case usually you know you’re going to go out you’re gonna have your phone and then you know you gonna walk her home or she’s gonna go home are you gonna drive her home whatever and then you gonna call her again maybe see her and usually there’s a three day rule that some play with and America it’s very antiquated by now.

So expect about three days before sealing the deal which is very similar to how things no I’m not telling you that every Colombian woman is an angel when I was there I definitely had my phone with women from all kinds of cities and so do you exceptions do occur every now and then but my point is that most of these are exceptions more than the rules so in America you’re pretty much at pays for sleeping on the first day maybe the second day at the Max and pathetic with the first date.

But in Columbia that is usually not the case usually you know you’re gonna go out you’re gonna have your phone and then you know you’re gonna walk her home or she’s gonna go home or you gonna drive her home whatever and then you gonna call her again maybe see her and usually there’s a three day rule that some play was in America it’s very antiquated by now.

So expect about three days before sealing the deal which is very similar to how to are in Eastern Europe. 

Now when it comes to actual seduction my whole strategy was not to be very very aggressive like in Brazil but more laid-back more subdued just chilling taking your time having her come to you instead of the other way around not being needy not being hungry not being thirsty you would do a lot of services to solve by looking and studying how other Latin guys behave.

As for my observation Latin guys are very very smooth but they’re also very very patient they’re not gonna be very aggressive they’re not gonna do you know start touching the girl and get into a physical contact early and they’re gonna wait and they’re gonna build a traction interest and then they’re going to eventually invite her over on the bin by themselves and then and all this time they’re gonna be super smooth about it.

And because that’s how loud guys act this is how Latin women behave so if you are too slow you might end up in the friend zone but if you’re too aggressive she might think that you are just too needy and too thirsty and both of these things are going to turn her off.

Of course when in doubt you should be on the aggressive side and sit on the positive side but nevertheless it really will pay off dividends to try to observe how other Latin guys behave and to mimic their behavior you will be able to do subconsciously very very quickly in the first few days of being in the country.

Other than that find the woman that you like that you find her attractive ask her on the date go out to have a couple of drinks and just see what happens don’t rush anything don’t push anything. I called his universal advice that’s suitable pretty much anywhere in the world regardless of whether in Columbia or Russia.

Victor Crespo

Victor is a road junkie who has spent the past 6 years wandering around Latin America. After discovering Colombia, he decided to make it home and never look back.

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